Her mother died. She became a ghost.
Lali is a young Afro-Mexican American woman living in the aftermath of loss. Years after her mother's death, she feels unmoored — from her body, her sense of home, and the future she once imagined.
When she chooses to leave Los Angeles and travel through Mexico, the journey is shaped by the people she meets along the way: an Indigenous woman whose quiet strength offers grounding, a deported U.S. veteran who understands the loss of home and the afterlife of violence, and communities rooted in Indigenous and Afro-Mexican history.
Before loss, dance rooted in African and folkloric traditions connected Lali to her mother and her cultural world; after, it becomes something she must slowly relearn. As the journey unfolds, memory shifts from something she avoids to something she inhabits.
The journey leads to Yanga, the first free Black town in the Americas — a place where ancestry is lived rather than remembered. Here, Lali begins to understand inheritance not as something lost, but something carried forward.
Where I Live is an intimate, BIPOC female-led drama about grief, displacement, and belonging — told with restraint, emotional precision, and an embodied sense of place.
Where I Live is my first feature — a personal, character-driven film about grief, identity, and the ways we learn to live again after loss.
I grew up as the daughter of a dancer, where rhythm and story shaped how I understood the world. Summers in Mexico shaped my sense of belonging. As a multiracial mother to an Afro-Latina daughter and an aunt to two Afro-Mexican nieces, questions of inheritance, home, and identity live close to me.
Before filmmaking, I spent two decades as a clinical psychologist, bearing witness to trauma and transformation. That work deeply informs how I approach emotional truth on screen — how grief lives in the body, how silence carries meaning, and how movement can express what language cannot.
I am drawn to intimate, visually poetic cinema that centers interior life and values restraint. In Where I Live, the visual language shifts with the protagonist's inner world: in Los Angeles, the camera stays close and contained; in Mexico, the frame opens into landscape, ritual, and human connection. The film moves forward through emotional momentum rather than spectacle.
Where I Live is a love letter — to Mexico, to daughters, and to resilience. Rooted in lived experience, it is a quiet, embodied film shaped with intention and care.
Our creative team brings together lived experience, trauma-informed practice, and award-winning craft to hold this story with care.
Our creative team brings together lived experience, trauma-informed practice, and award-winning craft to hold this story with care.
Meisner-trained actor and clinical psychologist with twenty years specializing in trauma. She wrote, produced, and starred in the award-winning short My Name Is… and trained the cast for You'll Lose a Good Thing. Where I Live marks her feature directorial debut.
Award-winning cinematographer with more than fourteen feature films to his credit and experience spanning Netflix, HBO Documentary Films, Showtime, and Orion Pictures. His recent work includes ZONA, Mine 9, and Hazard.
Veteran producer and founder of Life Out Loud Films, recognized for championing diverse stories and emerging voices. Her credits include Lake Effects, Coming Through the Rye, and field production on McMillions (HBO).
We live in a time defined by movement — forced migration, generational displacement, and cultural erasure. Where I Live speaks to these currents through a deeply personal story.
It explores the aftershocks of violence not through politics, but through human intimacy — how loss travels across borders, and how memory and ancestry can restore a sense of belonging.
This film arrives within a cultural moment where BIPOC women's stories, especially those rooted in mixed identity and diaspora, are expanding the cinematic landscape. Where I Live offers a quiet voice into that larger, necessary conversation.
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